Ohayōgozaimasu!
Let's get right to the point, here.
I've been noticing a lot of issues with people in the j-fashion community pertaining of uncomfortableness. To be simple, today I will be telling you that "you can do it", no matter how cheesy that sounds.
I think the perfect way to start would be to speak of a metaphor.
You are all cream puffs.
Every single one of you, cream puffs.
You may look silly on the outside, but once you speak up people might realize that you look extraordinarily elegant and quite charming.
Even after that quaint introduction, they will get to meet you. Make a friendship. They will notice that inside, you are just as delicious as the creamy delicacy of the pastry.
Think I've overused the word about now? I think so, too, hehe!
This is how I feel towards all my little cream puffs: big or small.
Want to be a magical girl here to save the day? Fine with me.
Want to be a sweet lolita with a closet that's practically a little girl's nursery? It shouldn't change anything.
Want to be a submissive that enjoys to have sex in a strawberry-printed skirt? Embrace it.
Want to dress in all pink? Who cares!
Want to wear nothing but floral? Go be a garden!
Want to sit on your bed watching Netflix while eating pizza? Sure.
You can do anything you want, and if someone judges you for it bash them with your parasol or even throw your tiara at them. Use your magical powers to remove that evil.
Most of these sorts of posts have a sort of context along the lines of it shouldn't matter what you look like on the outside:
I'm here to tell you that's incorrect.
Appearance, as you might already have guessed, is a large portion of who I am. I would be lost without a personal appearance. So, to me and many others it's hurtful to make that disappear and act like it doesn't matter; because to me, it definitely does. I can't be myself with it, and you saying that's selfish is downright mean.
So, my cream puffs, when trying to cheer someone up, don't disregard the last information.
I hope you do take this rather short message to heart.